The Safe/Calm Place exercise is a foundational preparatory technique in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy. It helps clients create an internal mental refuge they can access during times of distress, trauma work, or emotional dysregulation (Shapiro, 2018) (Buy on Amazon).
For Christian counselors, the Safe/Calm Place exercise beautifully aligns with biblical imagery of God as refuge, fortress, and peace (Psalm 46:1; Philippians 4:7). Instead of visualizing safety as a purely human construct, clients are invited to anchor themselves in God’s presence—the ultimate and eternal safe place.
“God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.”
From H.A. Ironside’s Expository Notes on the Psalms:
Ironside (1908) (Buy on Amazon) notes that God’s role as a refuge is not metaphorical alone—it is experiential. When we seek Him, we find tangible comfort and protection. A Safe/Calm Place built around God’s presence reinforces for clients that real emotional and spiritual safety is found not within themselves, but in Christ.
“And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”
From R.C. Sproul’s The Intimate Marriage:
Sproul (2003) (Buy on Amazon) points out that peace in Scripture is not merely the absence of turmoil, but the presence of Christ guarding the heart. Safe/Calm Place exercises, when anchored in God's peace, allow clients to practice receiving that supernatural protection emotionally and mentally.
The Safe/Calm Place exercise is strongly supported in trauma therapy literature:
Shapiro (2018) emphasizes it as critical for stabilizing clients before trauma reprocessing. (Buy on Amazon)
Logie and DeYoung (2019) found that using safe imagery significantly decreased emotional flooding during EMDR sessions.
Korn and Leeds (2002) showed that clients who developed robust Safe/Calm Places demonstrated better emotional regulation and faster trauma recovery.
Psychoeducation and Spiritual Framing
Teach clients that emotional regulation is not self-reliance, but abiding in God's refuge (Psalm 46:1). Explain how Safe/Calm Place practices reflect biblical themes of resting in God’s protective presence.
Guide the Creation of a Safe/Calm Place
Invite clients to visualize:
A peaceful scene (beach, forest, mountaintop)
A sanctuary setting (a chapel, a garden with Christ present)
Images from Scripture (e.g., lying down in green pastures, Psalm 23)
Strengthen the Senses
Ask clients to describe:
What they see, hear, smell, and feel
Sensations of warmth, safety, calm
God's presence tangibly within the image
Apply Gentle Bilateral Stimulation (Optional)
If appropriate, introduce soft tapping or alternate auditory tones to deepen the sense of security associated with the place.
Assign Scripture Anchors
Pair the visualization with memorized Scripture:
Psalm 23:1–3 — “He leads me beside quiet waters…”
Isaiah 26:3 — “You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast.”
Practice for Emotional Regulation
Encourage clients to mentally visit their Safe/Calm Place before sessions, after exposure to distress, or during personal spiritual practices like prayer and meditation.
Safe/Calm Place exercises naturally integrate with:
Mindfulness — remaining present with peaceful sensations without judgment.
Biblical meditation — repeating Scriptures on God’s peace and protection slowly and prayerfully.
Example verses:
John 14:27 (“My peace I give you”)
Psalm 91:2 (“He is my refuge and my fortress”)
The Safe/Calm Place technique offers Christian counselors a gospel-centered way to teach emotional regulation while rooting clients in the unchanging refuge of God’s presence. As trauma and anxiety surface, returning to the safety of Christ-centered peace forms a crucial bridge between psychological healing and spiritual renewal.
Ironside, H. A. (1908). Expository notes on the Psalms. Loizeaux Brothers. (Buy on Amazon)
Korn, D. L., & Leeds, A. M. (2002). Preliminary evidence of efficacy for EMDR resource development and installation in treating complex PTSD. Journal of Clinical Psychology, 58(12), 1465–1487. https://doi.org/10.1002/jclp.10094
Logie, R., & DeYoung, P. (2019). Enhancing emotional regulation through positive cognition installation. Journal of EMDR Practice and Research, 13(4), 231–241.
Shapiro, F. (2018). Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR) therapy: Basic principles, protocols, and procedures (3rd ed.). Guilford Press. (Buy on Amazon)
Sproul, R. C. (2003). The intimate marriage: A practical guide to building a great marriage. Reformation Trust. (Buy on Amazon)
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