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Spiritual Formation in Clinical Practice Toolkit Video 2 - Spiritual Problems in Therapy

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Many clients don’t walk into therapy saying they’re in a “spiritual crisis.”

But if you listen closely, their anxiety, depression, burnout, or relational pain is often carrying deeper questions—

  • Am I enough?
  • Where was God?
  • Why do I feel so much guilt?
  • Can I trust again?

In this video, we walk through four of the most common spiritual struggles that show up in the therapy room—and how they shape a client’s internal world, often beneath the surface:

  • Shame vs. guilt — why shame attacks identity, and how it can make grace feel unreachable
  • Spiritual performance anxiety — when faith becomes a test of worth instead of a relationship
  • Grief and theological confusion — how loss raises honest questions about God, and why lament matters
  • Church hurt and religious trauma — from subtle neglect to abuse, and how it impacts trust, identity, and healing

As counselors, we’re not there to rush answers or force resolution.
Our role is to create space—to help clients name what’s real, reclaim their dignity, and move toward clarity, freedom, and grounded faith (when they desire it).

If you’re a Christian counselor—or someone thinking deeply about the intersection of faith and mental health—this conversation will help you better understand what your clients may be carrying.

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